Thread:Otaku4469/@comment-36009152-20190527172904/@comment-36009152-20190528143141

Hey there,

What would you say to people who might possibly describe your dialogue as homophobic? When you are saying things that Yuri is ‘tolerable’ as if it is something repellent like the dirt under your shoes that you have to tolerate since it’s so bad. And are you after good job for tolerating that awful Yuri content, well done? May I ask what is the response you would like?

On ‘tolerance’ that is a barrier to acceptance which is what one should have. I hope you can solve the impression I am seeing. If someone said “I suppose I can tolerate those colored people drinking from the same fountain as me, I don’t accept them they are inferior to me, but I can tolerate them same as I can tolerate other things that should not be there”.

Same here: “I suppose I can tolerate those Yuri shows existing on the same planet as me, I don’t accept them they are inferior shows on account of the same sex relationships in them, but I can tolerate them same as I can tolerate other things that should not be there”.

That is the only way it can be put really with the tolerate word, it is the vibe I'm getting but have I misunderstood? Or in addition to being narrow-minded against Yuri and Yaoi are there other genres you have distorted views of?

That is just on Yuri alone, but some questions need answers:

Otaku4469 wrote: I simply don’t like Yaoi it is simple as that I have heard that before, or some variation of it. Why the obligation to declare you do not like Yaoi? If someone wrote “I simply don’t like Yaoi”, “I don’t like the lower layout of page 234 of the phone book”, “I don’t like red tables” really does beg the question why hate such oddly specific things, and why formally announce it?

Otaku4469 wrote: but I don’t hate the characters themselves in this series but I despise their sexual preference.

Uh, I’m not sure that is how it works, I'll explain to help you, hating someones sexual preference is like hating an intrinsic part of them. Here if Mika and Yu really did love one another officially would you truly suddenly hate their love for each other? You know Yu and Mika, shouldn't you be seeing everything great about them, like how courageous they are, what capable fighters they become, how they defend their family first they are unequivocally the most incredibly amazing people.

How can there be any other option but to recognise everything, good and bad about them and loving it all? So much better than "I despise their sexual preference" and no longer like them, how is that justifiable. Exactly the same as you would see straight people for everything remarkable about their actions and who they are inwardly, and not "I despise their sexual preference". Treat everyone nicely, and don't hate someone on who they want to love?

If someone wrote “I don’t hate Otaku4469 themselves … but I despise their sexual preference” does that sound psychologically healthy?

Otaku4469 wrote: I actually wanted for the Main character to hook up with the girl that was in charge of the group this happens in all stories the pairings sometimes break or lift the story.

I am disappointed because if there is a choice for a pairing between a attractive girl or a boy I will always side for the girl.

Whilst very nice, this thread is to discuss what is becoming increasingly evident, your prejudiced views towards homosexuality particularly between guys. This is simply not befitting for the same reason racism is not acceptable, to being horrible to someone who loved someone of the opposite sex. It only has negative effects both towards people when you are adamantly repulsed by a sexual preference, and towards yourself. Though I am sure you can think of nice things to say about Yaoi content?

Otaku4469 wrote: my profile lists my preference in sexuality. Good thinking.

How wonderful does it sound to completely reverse your views on Yaoi content. Instead of awful things to say, something like "I like Yaoi series for the same reason I like every other series, for the characters, story, art and so forth. I would never think lesser of an anime, or characters for their sexual preference towards same or opposite partners.

That is one, really nice option! Yet if it is absolutely not to your liking there are other paths to walk. Since we can be honest with one another I have something to share: the above are not my own views; I was just posting what other people might say. I would never want something dreadful to happen to your account.

Otaku4469 I really want us to be friends and as it happens we are off to a pleasant start since I LOVE fan fiction. In fact what better fan fiction than the ones where you like a series, and the characters, they are all the best in the world. There is nothing quite like them… that is until you see one of the guys glance at another, just for a second, but the damage is done: the terror sets in that they may be homosexual. Suddenly you do not like them anymore; no way ever, the characters are gone in your mind since Yaoi is “repulsive” and that. It is mandatory to stop following the series, starve it of attention so hopefully it goes away... which it does.

If you have any pre-existing fanfiction like that can you please add it here? Since as you say “Yaoi is repulsive so I will stop following the series completely” there must be other series where you have expressed such tasteful and perfectly rational views for, right?

It would mean so much to me if you would kindly only share fanfiction that articulates how much you despise Yaoi, and also links to any posts where you have stated how bad same sex preferences are. It is always a choice idea to spread hateful views around since that makes the world a nicer place. With that if on the off chance, however small, that you also hate, oh I don’t know, people of different races being in relationships, I hope you may do me the kindness of sharing that as well.

If you are set in your ways and do not want to change for the better, great! I hope you can grant me this favour, no one else will see what you post here so feel free to share all the lurid details on everything you do not like because it may have even trace hints of Yaoi within.

It is only asked in all earnest as discussing these matters is the only acceptable way, I am sure you would agree?