Thread:Otaku4469/@comment-36009152-20190527172904/@comment-36009152-20190529024356

Just so everything is clear, you ‘mistakenly’ said the main character is bad, but you didn’t ‘mistakenly’ say that Yaoi is repulsive, didn’t mistakenly equate it to incest or that you despise it, right XD

Do you genuinely see nothing wrong with the things you say? From a different account here, there was similar content posted to yours, what do you make of that?

Otaku4469 wrote: I lean more to a healthy heterosexual relationship with a girl. Not sure if it’s an official term, likely not but ‘healthy heterosexual relationship’ is dog whistle prejudice, it implies that homosexual relationships are not healthy. Also seen how olden times people say that others are ‘happily married to a women now’ with their inference they were not happily with a same sex partner before.

It may be new information to learn that homosexual relationships are equally as healthy as heterosexual ones. It is on full display with Mika and Yu and nothing is even official there. They look after one another, bring out the best and get along well that is very healthy; they have the closest relationship in the series.

Otaku4469 wrote: I really like that girl in charge of his team the one that belongs to the ruling family. I will spoil this myself my favorite pairing in the whole story would be Tepes with the main character the person who saved the life of Mika, and she is my favorite Female character of the whole series. Otaku4469 wrote: Tepes would be a incredible pairing for the Main character over Mika because to me he is qualified to be the best friend. What is to be made of casually going into other topics, it is nice that you like those things, but again that you are completely indifferent to the horrible stuff you can come out with, then start randomly talking about other characters normally?

Labels are never nice, like if you call someone a criminal they may begin acting like one, that practice should be avoided. Yet based on the behaviour seen the impression given is that you are homophobic in the true sense of the word. Not someone who drops the other F word every now and then, neither someone who says sketchy things for attention. It is being shown first hand, it's an actual mindset of genuine convictions. It’s surreal; I'm not sure whether you can see anything wrong with what you are saying, and not saying. You have not said anything that you really should be stating: “I don’t mind a characters sexual preference, gay or straight”, “being homosexual/heterosexual should not be thought in the same manner as incest”, “I will no longer say that I hate yaoi because I am a nice person who does not look down on same sex feelings”, “instead of finding Yaoi repulsive and not watching it, I will watch it same as any other anime for the characters, story, art and all that”, do any of those sound like exciting new developments?

If not, again getting to the bottom of this in a well-mannered and respectful way is best. I hope we may speak candidly even more, there are some questions I hope you may answer as I am having difficulty understanding this:


 * What is the source of your hatred of anything even reminding you of Yaoi? Prejudices are learned so what made you wake up one day and decide that you can support all things except Yaoi?
 * Can you see that a relationship between people can be healthy whether it is a same sex or opposite sex couple? So long as they love and care for one another, that’s healthy isn’t it? Or are you certain that a relationship is by default unhealthy if it is between a homosexual couple?
 * You mentioned Mika, that he is qualified to be best friend (very good of you). It is no ones place to ever speculate, it is not our business but out of everyone Mika is very fond of Yu. For all intents and purposes, read between the lines. If in the manga Mika told Yu he loved him, and Yu returned that, he would still be his best friend (good in your books) and also a romantic partner. They would both be happy, they would easily be the best couple in the series so would you support them since their happiness comes first?

You have made some promising steps with having a notion of good and bad, noting that Yu is a decent person, he definitely is. So would you agree that you would not drop the series if Yu were gay since you have acknowledged he is decent, and an attraction to guys would not stop him being decent. To make further developments it would be better to fit the hatred of same sex relationships into the definition of ‘bad’.

Hating same sexual preferances is wrong for the same reason hating opposite sex preferances is wrong, treat everyone equally right?